Most of us would initially think about things like eye color, skin color, height...You know, those genetically inherited traits. Just so you know, that's not where we're going here.
Instead, let's talk about the traits you have control over -- those traits that you or others might use to define your personality. For example: You could describe someone as outgoing, flexible, resourceful, generous...
You might be surprised to hear that psychologists created a list of words from the dictionary that showed there are over 4500 personality traits we humans have the capacity to express. 4500! A quick online search will give you a list of 600. From absent-minded to zany, anyway you look at it, that’s a ton of traits. (And a ton of ways to express yourself!)
Interestingly enough, a lot of the decisions about how to show up have less to do with you and more to do with the ideas of those around you -- the people you've aligned yourself with as well, as the people you've learned to avoid.
It's your human nature to seek acceptance.
Think about it: From birth on, we're taught others' ideas for the "right" and "wrong" way to behave -- how to be "good" and not be "bad"-- what it will take to be accepted and belong. We take on and follow these rules, trusting that doing so will lead to our being accepted wherever we go on a larger scale.
There's no such thing as universal acceptance.
But you've probably realized that by now. Or really even anything remotely close to a standard for the "right" way to show up. It can even seem like others were given an entirely different playbook!
We adjust our settings and dial down the aspects of ourselves that aren’t encouraged, and live in the lane of those that are -- even if we don't really like the way any of it fits.
It's time for a crash course in what it feels like to live whole.
That's why I've created this program. I think it’s time for a crash course in what it feels like to live whole. This means owning ALL of your traits – those you’ve labeled as “good” as well as those you’ve labeled as “bad.” Only then can we really know true acceptance.
How you show up is always your choice.
Traits on their own aren't "good" or "bad." It's our judgement that makes them so.
Your ability to choose how to best express a trait in the moment is at the root of your ability to build strong relationships and live more authentically.
Knowing how to intentionally express (or repress) traits so as to not harm or judge others is at the root of your sense of wellbeing and freedom.
A weekly exploration into how your traits can hold you back, or support you in showing up as the person you intend to be
Thought-provoking insights for how to shift your trait perspectives along with plenty of opportunities for Q&A
Customized videos, guest speakers, and an occasional pop-up web meeting to support you and spark deeper inquiry, broader application, and lasting success
A private (within the course) discussion board to ask questions and share your insights. No social-media accounts required!
The opportunity to focus a bit of time on yourself and make meaningful shifts that will help you experience more of what you want in life, and less of what you don't
Here's what I now know: The answers to finding that fulfillment and acceptance we all seek are found through gaining a better understanding of our human design, and how that design impacts our day-to-day experience.
It's my mission to help people understand and accept themselves, so we can all live a more joy-filled and impactful life. I invite you to join me.